A Southern Thanksgiving Celebration…Part III…The Turkey

The star of the show…TURKEY!  I have successfully roasted Thanksgiving turkeys for more than 15 years…they have always been tender & moist regardless of brand or fresh vs. frozen.  As I mentioned before, I use my ‘Turkey Bible’ as a guide, but most turkeys you purchase come with roasting instructions.  Saying that I have successfully roasted does not imply that I haven’t made mistakes here & there (like the year I forgot to take out the bag of gizzards…oops!…it still tasted great, though).  If you want tons of information about the do’s & don’ts of turkeys, try the USDA Meat & Poultry Hotline website or give them a jingle at 800.535.4555…they are the publishers of my ‘Turkey Bible’.  I am going to give a quick overview of the basics to having a beautifully golden, tender & juicy turkey.

First things first…what size to buy.  You can purchase turkeys for as few as 6 or as many as 30!  You want to plan on approximately 1 pound per person.  I have roasted both frozen and fresh, without overwhelming preferences for either…I go with price.  My mom usually orders an organic free-range turkey, but you can buy whatever you want.  If you buy frozen, remember that the SAFEST way to thaw is in the fridge…plan on a day for every 5 pounds…don’t forget to put the bird in a pan to catch any liquids from thawing (you don’t want that all over your fridge…ICK!). 

Now that the star is ready, time for ‘make-up’ & ‘wardrobe’.  You will need to wash your bird and pat him dry (I prefer to use paper towels).  I also like to give mine a nice massage with butter (you can use vegetable or olive oil…I like butter), then a generous sprinkling of Kosher salt.  Now, if you want to get all fancy-dancy, Martha-style, you could gently lift the skin away from the breast and tuck in fresh herbs (sage, parsley…tarragon, rosemary…whatever you like) arranged in a pretty fashion…this gives a kind of  ‘stained glass’ look to the beautifully browned, translucent skin.  You will need a roasting pan large enough to accommodate the size bird you are planning for…preferably with a rack.  If you don’t have a special pan with a rack, you can use a disposable one and make a ‘rack’ with an ‘S’ of foil (make it thick enough to stand up to your bird’s weight). 

I’m not a fan of stuffing the bird…never done it, never plan on trying it…so if you want to try it you’ll have to seek advice elsewhere (Martha or FoodNetwork are good places).  I do, however, season the interior of my turkey.  I rub it down with salt & pepper, and place aromatics in the cavity…I have used a variety, celery, onion, head of garlic cut in half, carrots, citrus and fresh herbs.  This is not necessary, but sure tastes yummy!  I also truss mine…tying the wings and legs tight to the bird…makes it prettier on the platter.  Without trussing, the legs & wings will relax during roasting…not as pretty.  I use kitchen twine, wrapped around the legs, criss-crossed then tight to the wings and around the body…it is simple, as long as it is tight it should work.  Now you are ready for the finishing touch to the roasting ‘wardrobe’!  A loose tent of heavy-duty tin foil 10ish inches longer than your bird will do.  You will want to crimp it to 2 sides of your pan to keep it in place.  This tent will prevent over-browning, maximize heat circulation and decrease the mess of oven splatter (bonus!).  If you want to use a meat thermometer, insert it through the tin foil (so you can see it 🙂 ) into the thickest part of the thigh without touching bone…your goal is 185°.  I’m seriously considering trying my new fancy-schmancy oven’s roasting feature…but I will need to study on that a bit.

Now for the actual ROASTING!  You should preheat your oven to 325°.  This is the roasting guide I use:

  • 8-12 pounds…………3-4 hours
  • 12-16 pounds……….3½-4½ hours
  • 16-20 pounds………4-5 hours
  • 20-24 pounds………4½-5½ hours
  • 24-28 pounds………5-6½ hours

You will want to remove the foil tent for the last 20ish minutes to get that perfectly browned skin.  All juices should run CLEAR…no pink!  Don’t forget to let the roasted bird stand & rest for 20 minutes prior to carving (this is a job the ladies in my family leave to the men…it is our tradition…& it makes them feel like the helped a little).  While my bird rests, I place it on a pretty platter and ‘decorate’…you know I like my food pretty!  You can use bunches of herbs, apples, oranges, lemons…whatever you think coordinates with the rest of your table/buffet.

Don’t forget the GRAVY!  I mean, we Southerners simply can’t function without gravy…but this is special.  You will use the rich drippings found at the bottom of your roasting pan…if you have a gas cook top, you can even prepare your gravy right in the same pan!  You will need equal parts of butter & flour (somewhere between 2 & 8 tablespoons depending on the size crowd).  Melt the butter over medium-ish heat, sprinkle in the flour & stir with a fork or whisk…gotta cook the ‘raw flour taste’ out…a few minutes will do, watch for it to become a golden color.  Then slowly pour in those delish drippings, stirring constantly.  You may need some chicken (or turkey 😉 ) stock to reach your desired consistency.  Salt & pepper to taste.

My Momma makes giblet gravy…boiling the neck & gizzards while the bird roasts…adds cornstarch to thicken…seasoned with salt & pepper…finished with sliced up hard-boiled egg.  Also delicious…you will find both types on my table!

Today’s secret revealed…remember to add a few pounds to your turkey…a meal this fabulous deserves a few encore presentations!  You know the meal is great when you plan in advanced for the left-overs!

A Southern Thanksgiving Celebration…Part II…The Sides

In my experience, the quintessential Southern Thanksgiving Feast is like the ultimate pot-luck.  Every memory I have of this special meal involves the attendees proudly armed with their very best dishes.  Sides are so versatile…they can be simple or complicated…savory or sweet…understated or embellished…they can be whatever you want them to be! 

I am going to choose three as my focus…these are the sides that, in my humble opinion, you cannot have a true Thanksgiving meal without…Cornbread Dressing, Cranberry Sauce, and Sweet Potato Soufflé.  Yes, there are countless others, but these are what make this meal a feast.

Cornbread dressing…an integral part of a Southern Thanksgiving!  As I have mentioned before, the recipe I now use was passed down through my Mother-in-law’s family.  It is unique and delicious.  The texture is like no other I have tried.  The ingredients are simple and not surprising, but I assure you the result is nothing short of amazing.  Every family has their own way of making this dish…my family includes biscuits (we’ll cover those another time 😉 ) in our recipe.  I have never known a recipe that did not include good ol’ poultry seasoning.  I’m sure you could substitute fresh herbs, but somethings are sacred…meant to be done the way generations past did them.  Nostalgia…isn’t that what these special meals are all about?

Cranberry sauce…it just has to be there…everyone knows this to be true, like it or not.  This often lack-luster side, found molded in the shape of a can, can be perked up with little time and effort.  Now, I’m not knocking the stuff that comes out of a can…my kids LOVE it!  All I’m saying is that cranberry sauce can be fresh and delicious.  I use Martha’s recipe (yes, THE Martha).  It is quick, simple and absolutely delicious.  It is a great make-ahead dish that just gets better after a day or two.

And last, but certainly not least…the dual threat…Sweet Potato Soufflé.  If you want to knock their socks off, this is the side for you!  The vegetable that eats like a dessert…oh the deliciousness!  The smooth texture of the sweet potatoes…the hint of carmelization from baking them…all topped with the crunchy, toasty goodness of brown sugar & pecans.  This will soon become your signature dish (if someone hasn’t beat you to it!).  Quick, pick up the phone & stake your claim…tell your hostess this is what you’ll be bringing!  You better double the recipe…it vanishes!  And if you are fortunate enough to have some left behind…you can polish them off yourself when you revisit this glorious meal during round 2 (or 3 or 4 if you plan it right!).

I will be adding the recipes here shortly…or just click on the recipes tab of the main menu!

Today’s secret revealed…you have to have a fabulous supporting cast, the star can’t do it alone.  Without the proper sides, turkey is just turkey.

A Monkey Party, with a little Southern Charm

I want to share one of my custom designs, now that the party has been done (didn’t want to give away the big reveal 😉 )…I made these Southern Charms for a friend in Arizona and her Baby Boy’s 1st Birthday.

Kelli has a weekly blog on www.katieleehome.com that features fabulous and creative ideas for healthy alternatives in food for your family.  I’m sure the organic cupcakes that these topped were incredibly delicious!  I hope she shares the recipe!

If you would like more information about custom designs for your next party email me natasha@southerngirlsecrets.com .  I also have several choices for existing designs that can be personalized, starting at $10!

Welcome to my New Home

Due to some recent events, I have decided to make the move to my permanent website, where I have full control over pretty much everything.  I have ‘moved’ several of my former posts on Blogger here, I will probably move more over time.  I wanted a fresh start, with a new look.  There are so many color combinations that I love…I had a very hard time deciding which to use.  The girlie-girl in me wanted to start with this soft pink…who knows how long I will keep it.  Please tell me what you think of my new ‘digs’ & if there are any former posts you would like to see me move!

More of “A Southern Thanksgiving Celebration” coming…and a peek at one of my custom Southern Charms designs!

Today’s secret revealed…sometimes ‘cleaning house’ just doesn’t get the job done.

A Southern Thanksgiving Celebration…Part I

I got quite a response regarding my “Back to My Happy Place” post, so it has inspired me to do a 5ish part series that I am calling “A Southern Thanksgiving Celebration”. I will be doing at least one post per week over the next 5 weeks. This will put me finishing up the week before Thanksgiving, giving you time to get your groceries while they are still on sale! Can you believe that Thanksgiving is less than 6 weeks away???

First I want to talk about Southern cooking, my cooking…I guess by definition it is not necessarily Soul Food, but it is soulful. I believe the end result of cooking isn’t only about the ingredients and method, but about the care and thought that goes in. Some people just don’t care about cooking (and that is okay), but then they wonder why what they cook is disappointing (even when they follow the recipe to the letter). Now I’m not saying that every dish that emerges from the fires of my kitchen is a masterpiece, but I am saying that when you really care–it shows…everyone can appreciate that.

I could have combined this with an upcoming post, but I believe cornbread to be one of the most defining dishes of Southern cooking. I know that cornbread is not unique to the South, but I also know that we make it better here than anywhere else. I am talking about pure, unadulterated cornbread…NO SUGAR ADDED…the kind you bake in an old cast iron skillet.

To make this right, you really must have a very well-seasoned cast iron skillet, mine is approximately 10 inches for the recipe I am going to share. If you don’t have one, put it at the top of your Must Have list for the kitchen…I suggest finding one in your local antique shop, mine is a Wagner Ware. Prices vary greatly, some are collectible…you are looking for one that feels pretty heavy and is black all over. A little rust is okay, when you get it home wash it with a little, tiny bit of soapy water and dry IMMEDIATELY, then wipe it down with some vegetable oil (thin layer) and let sit in a warm oven for a few hours (I like to pop mine in while my oven is cooling after baking). Once you have done this initial step, soap & water washing is optional (depending on what you cook). Keep in mind that the odors of very fragrant things like fish, onion, & garlic can be absorbed by your pan. I reserve mine mostly for cornbread, but am thinking I will purchase another to use for a variety of other yummies.

Now the cornmeal…this is also very important. I have converted over to my mother-in-laws recipe (sorry Mom!), and it is delish, not that my Mom’s isn’t ;). You are going to need White cornmeal, preferably self-rising…this is pure cornmeal, no flour added. Here in the South you can get endless varieties (I like Tenda-Bake), but for my west coast friends you will have more of a challenge (as I did living in AZ for 7 years). If you have a grocery, like Fry’s in AZ, that sells Kroger brand (we have Kroger in parts of the South, not my parts)…they have Kroger brand white corn meal, and it is great! It comes in a little round cardboard container (similar to the kind oatmeal comes in), it is cheap, and delicious.

Like many Southern cooks, I keep a small container of bacon grease (I know, not exactly heart healthy) in the fridge…I put a small spoon in while I preheat my skillet (this is an important step…you must preheat the skillet!). If you don’t have bacon grease, a pat of butter (the good stuff, not margarine), or a bit of vegetable oil will suffice…but bacon makes it better!

The recipe:

Preheat oven (and skillet) to 425°

2 eggs
2 cups buttermilk
2 cups cornmeal
1½ teaspoons salt (or a little less, I use Kosher salt)
1 teaspoon baking soda

Mix it all up (I typically mix the wet together first, then add in the dry), pour it into preheated skillet. Bake for 20 minutes.

I hope you enjoy this as much as I do! It is a delicious accompaniment to a variety of dishes…soups, beans, etc…it is the perfect bread for your fall dinner!

Today’s secret revealed: real Southern cornbread does not contain sugar!

The Nester

I am not a ‘bloggie’, I don’t surf the net reading different blogs all day (I might if I wasn’t chasing, cleaning up after, and cooking for a family of 6), but I cannot help but share and encourage everyone to read The Nesting Place http://www.thenester.com/ . I feel like I have “met” my soul sister…you know the wise one, the one you aspire to be. Her sense of decorating (on an extreme budget, I might add) is nothing short of amazing!!! I just can’t read enough…it is a good thing I don’t have a laptop, or I would probably strap it to me with that old Baby Bjorn going room-to-room trying to conjure her decorating skills.

Her mantra has given me permission, and validated, my long-time philosophy…she put it into words for me, and I thank her for this. IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE PERFECT TO BE BEAUTIFUL…so simple and true. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, in my home I am the beholder (and the 5 other members of my little family). I am happy that those quirky little pieces of my decor speak to me every time I look at them. Like my Grandpa’s bottles, my Grannie’s clock, or the antique camera from my husband’s grandfather (he gave that to me because he knew I loved photography)…to some these might be a mismatched bunch of trash, but to me they are treasures…the kind you cannot replace or assign value to.

I have put a ‘badge’ from The Nester on my blog, making it super easy for you to find.

Today’s secret revealed…borrowed from The Nester: IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE PERFECT TO BE BEAUTIFUL!

Back to my Happy Place

Now that I have exorcised the demons (are you thinking “this house is clear”…I am lol), I am ready to get back to being me :).

I know I get a little bit ahead of myself, but I just can’t stop thinking about Thanksgiving. The thought of all that cooking makes me giddy…the clean-up, not so much (but I believe you’ve heard my theory on that!). So, let’s focus on the positive–the cooking…the baking…the eating! We are having quite a crowd by my preliminary count…so far 20ish. The challenge is going to be delegation. I love cooking all of the Thanksgiving standards, so how do I choose which I want to ‘farm out’?

I guess I should prioritize by my favorites. The pies–my signature Thanksgiving standard. I love baking the Big 3…Pumpkin, Pecan, & Apple (too bad that’s not a ‘P’ word…the 3 P’s would be more fun to say). I love making the crusts out of tiny pastry leaves–so pretty! Next is the Turkey…it just isn’t Thanksgiving Dinner without this guy (or girl)…beautifully browned, moist & tender. I have to credit one of my college roomies with my turkey talents. Tanya gave me a booklet called “Talking Turkey” when I was cooking my first Thanksgiving Feast as head ‘chef’. I was cooking for all of my friends who weren’t heading home for the holiday. This little booklet should be called the “Turkey Bible”, it tells you everything you need to know…buying, thawing, stuffing (which I DON’T do), and roasting. Next is the dressing (some may call this stuffing, but here in the South we call it dressin’). You simply cannot have a Southern Thanksgiving without cornbread dressing. I have recently converted over to my mother-in-law’s recipe (passed down through her family)…it is simply divine. You know it has got to be good for me to choose it over my family’s recipe. Okay, the last I will cover is the Sweet Potato Soufflé…I personally can’t imagine Thanksgiving without it! It is like a dessert disguised as a veggie…YUM!

Cranberry sauce (I use Martha’s recipe), green beans, mashed potatoes, gravy, fluffy rolls…I just don’t know what to do! The good news for me is that all of the ladies coming to celebrate are fabulous cooks, so no worries about whether their dishes will meet my expectations. Sorry if that sounds a little snooty, but we all have expectations about what something as classic as Thanksgiving Dinner is supposed to taste like.

Today’s Secret revealed is a cooking tip I got from my cousin, her husband is a chef in Charleston: bake your sweet potatoes for the soufflé (I was taught to boil them)…think of the difference in taste between a regular potato baked vs. boiled…your palate will thank you!

Why Ruin a Perfect Evening?

This is my philosophy…I have had the good fortune to have my best friends visit me two weekends in a row (one each weekend). As you already know, cooking is one of the ways I show my affection for loved ones…so obviously I cooked while they were here…and yes it was yummy! But we get to the end of the meal and a break in the fabulous conversation…both besties say to me “so, shall we start cleaning up?”…my reply is “why should we ruin this perfectly wonderful evening with cleaning up???”. Yep, I am not afraid to leave some dishes in the sink overnight…I actually prefer to do my dishes in the morning while I have my coffee. This is not a practice I reserve for special guests…at the end of my day, the last thing I want to do (after homework, cooking, baths & bedtime) is the dishes! Once the kids are in bed, it is ME time and I refuse to feel obligated to ruin that time with doing something I don’t particularly like. Now, I understand that some people enjoy doing the dishes…I am just not one of them. So, if you are like me…stop with guilting yourself into that dreaded post-dinner clean-up! I promise they will still be there in the morning (unless you have a little cleaning fairy that visits you overnight…in which case, please give her my address!).

Today’s secret revealed…you don’t have to ruin your evening with doing the chores you don’t like, you have earned the right to relax and enjoy the down-time…they will be waiting for you when you are ready!

The Post-Party Report

Well the ‘party’ was a smashing success! I have several pictures to share, but just realized that there are NONE of the Jell-O octopus…I actually forgot to put her out for the party…OOPS! An inspiration forgotten LOL! The cupcakes were as yummy as they were cute, and everyone loved the octo-dogs! Emma really enjoyed being the center of attention as she blew out her candles (of course!). One of her favorite gifts, the bubble machine, was a big hit with all of the kids.

Today’s secret revealed…piping the icing is definitely the way to go…BUT don’t try to cut corners and use a big zip-top bag instead of a pastry bag…trust me!

The Big Day Approaches

Well, sometimes I even surprise myself! It is the day before Baby Girl’s 2nd Birthday and I have 48 cupcakes baked, 1 pepto-bismal pink Octopus chilling, and most of the cleaning done (I said most…not all LOL)…all before noon! I have the cute litte cupcake toppers created and printed…but not cut out yet. This may live up to the expectations in my head! Makes me wish I had planned an actual party, rather than just us (plus the in-laws…there are 7 of them arriving tomorrow). So just with our ‘little family’ and hubby’s peeps the total still comes in at 13! I do still need to get more complimentary ribbon for the cupcake toppers and gift wrap for the gifts (AND wrap them, of course).

What fun this is going to be…at least for me! I love doing these little themes. We are doing an ocean-ish theme, but in pink & brown. There will be the big jello octopus, cupcakes adorned with the cute little cutouts (that include pink octopi), colorful goldfish (why can’t they make those in PINK!?!), and one of my oldies-but-goodies…the hot dog octupus! Okay, so I went a little octopus crazy…it was that stinkin’ pan I got for a steal at the Williams-Sonoma outlet…I could not resist it! A little sneak-peek at the cutouts, I just love them! I have been inspired and have started a whole collection of designs…baby showers…birthday themes (I have quite a list!)…ideas for all ages!

Todays secret revealed is…things are much easier to accomplish when you whittle away bit by bit…like you haven’t heard that one before! Until next time…the post-party report!

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